Over to France

Bonjour and thank you for stopping by. My name is Renie and this is the story of my first trip (avec mon mari) to France. We flew into Paris and then journeyed south-eastward by car, through so many beautiful villages, to arrive in Nice. It was four weeks of amazingness. We were totally smitten and our lives have been forever changed! If you would like to have a peek at what we experienced, then please read on….. And if you would like to venture further with us, as we work out our future Over to France adventures, then please read on a bit further still…

Abel Tasman, National Park

This time a fortnight ago we were frantically packing for a trip to the South Island.  My sister has a significant birthday coming up and she was choosing to celebrate it by hiking the coastal track in the Abel Tasman National Park with her husband and two daughters.  She invited Clive and I to join them.  It is the sort of thing that requires a rather significant amount of planning and preparation, and preferably even some training.  Not much at all of this was done on our part. My sister arranged the bookings of the trail and the huts.  Several weeks beforehand, evidence of preparations could be seen throughout her house – piles of sleeping gear, sachets of porridge and bags of lentils, copious notes and even trial-runs of suitable recipes.

Meanwhile, in our household Clive booked our flights while I vaguely wondered what one should wear when sleeping in shared accommodation.  We did go for a training walk.  It was roughly eight kilometres and we were quite proud.  I had even worn my proper tramping boots.  I had only worn the boots for gardening up to that point, but they seemed to manage the training walk well.  We knew we would be walking between eleven and twelve kilometres a day on the hike.  Eight kilometres hadn’t felt too bad at all, and we were sure another few kilometres more would be quite manageable.   We would be carrying packs on the real hike, but it was only for three days so really, how much gear would we be taking anyway?

Well, it turns out that the gear needed for a three day hike (which meant four sleeps, I might add) is quite a lot.  At least, it certainly feels a lot when you are carrying it all upon your back.  That is what I thought as I carried my pack for the first time from the airport carpark to the terminal.  Actually, it was only half that distance, as we came across a couple of luggage trolleys and thought they would be a much better idea.  It seemed very sensible to save our energy for the real thing.

The real thing was very real indeed.  It was hard, interesting, beautiful and restful – at different times and in various ways.

I have grown up close to the Waitakere Ranges, so walking in nature is by no means new to me.  But there is something mysteriously wonderful about a slow, laborious trek through the bush for hours on end, one step in front of the other, listening to tui and being entertained by hopeful fantail.  Although we were hiking together as a group of six, our configuration was constantly changing and every now and then I would find myself walking alone, with no-one else within view or earshot.  The company of my family was fabulous, but these moments of solitude were also surprisingly precious.   Not long into the hike, I began to realise that the feeling of stress that I normally carry was gone.  It was a weight I was glad to be rid of.

What I could not be rid of so easily was the weight of my pack!  It was heavy to put on, heavy to take off and definitely heavy to hike with.  It made going up-hill hard and down-hill even harder.  There were many gorgeous views along our way and we did take the time to stop and appreciate them.  But even stopping would become difficult at times as the loss of momentum meant starting up again was a real effort.  More than once I found myself thinking that I would probably be able to enjoy the journey a whole lot more without the burden that was weighing down my every step.  Hmm, I think there’s a message in there somewhere.

But despite the hard work, it was a fantastic experience.  We got to chat with (and sleep beside (eek!)) lots of interesting people, forming a sense of camaraderie as we met up with several of them again along the way.  We got to slow down and enjoy the basics of boiling water over a tiny gas burner for a cup of tea, and sharing a block of chocolate together as a family for dessert, while sitting on the hut floor in front of the fire.  We watched people help each other and learn from each other.  And we made great memories together.  It was pretty special.

And the answer to my ponderings about night time attire?  I think you pretty much just stay wearing what you are wearing – minus the boots.   It’s simpler that way.  Smellier maybe, but definitely simpler.

Would we do it again?  Yes indeed, but next time with lighter equipment and better-fitting packs.  And perhaps a few more training walks to boot (see what I did there?).

Then Jesus said, “Come to me, all of you who are weary and carry heavy burdens, and I will give you rest.  Matthew 11:28

4 responses to “Abel Tasman, National Park”

  1. Marlene Whitehead Avatar
    Marlene Whitehead

    hi Renie, when I saw this blog come through my email I couldn’t wait to read about your pilgrimage, you never disappoint me and always make me smile! I did a similar hike many years ago with the youth club around the Lake District in Cumbria. Your back pack experiences evoked painful memories of hiking with too much stuff on my back, blisters from ill fitting hiking boots and a question! Why are hiking boots so heavy? Surely they should be lighter especially as you already have to lug the kitchen sink around on your back?? We were following our vicar but he had reversed the map so we walked twice the distance and got lost often in pouring rain and bogs which were treacherous sucking at your boots to break your ankles! Once at the youth hostel we had duties to fulfill, sweeping the dorms, cooking food for everyone, strangers included or getting up at 6am , as I volunteered to make lunches for the back packers all 50 of them. Money was tight so it was a strange yellow substance called Piccalilli for the filling. I still don’t know what it was and have rarely seen it since. If you do see a jar walk on by or eat it at your peril!
    Times change I’m sure youth hosteling is far less hostile, but your family trek doesn’t seem that far removed from what I experienced. What I learned was never give up, something good is just around the corner or just over the next hill! The best memories are the beautiful scenery and majestic misty mountains with the colours rapidly changing with the weather and a sense of being at one with nature and not just because one boot is still stuck in the muddy bog!
    Thankyou for sharing your story it’s evoked so many memories and made me smile xx

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    1. Oh thank you Aunty Marlene. I totally agree with you about the boots. Surely they don’t have too be so heavy! 🙂
      It sounds like your trek was a lot harder than ours. We had to walk through a few streams, but thankfully we had great weather so didn’t have to wade through any muddy bogs. You poor things having to suffer the mud AND Piccalilli sandwiches. Not much fun. But still an adventure to remember!

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  2. Great walk, really glad you and Clive enjoyed it😊.

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    1. Keen to go with you guys again one day!

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