Over to France

Bonjour and thank you for stopping by. My name is Renie and this is the story of my first trip (avec mon mari) to France. We flew into Paris and then journeyed south-eastward by car, through so many beautiful villages, to arrive in Nice. It was four weeks of amazingness. We were totally smitten and our lives have been forever changed! If you would like to have a peek at what we experienced, then please read on….. And if you would like to venture further with us, as we work out our future Over to France adventures, then please read on a bit further still…

Getting Over France – The First Week Back

Wednesday 07 June 2023

I went for a walk this morning before work.  Leading up to our holiday in France I was a wee bit apprehensive about my knee.  My right knee that is.  Lefty has been holding its own admirably.  Mr Right has been giving me a bit of grief over the last few years, probably due to the quick twists and turns it suffered daily whilst I was working in the cafe.  Despite a few months of physiotherapy, a change of “career” and a bit of semi-regular street walking, I was still having pain.  How would my knee cope with the amount of walking we were sure to do over our four week venture through France?

Well I will tell you how it coped – magnificently!  I was a bit tentative with it at first – trying to remember all that the physio had told me.  But before long I noticed that noticing it I was not!  There was no longer any pain. What was the source of this miracle I hear you ask?  Why France, obviously!  I’m taking it as a sign.

Anyway, back to my walk this morning.  It was cold. I wore a hoodie, thinking I’d warm up pretty quickly.  I did not. I actually hugged myself a lot of the way.

And the grass verges were shabby.  Yes, I know it’s winter and there has been a bit, well okay a lot of rain, but do people not take any pride in their properties anymore?  

And then I started remembering all the beautiful stone walls that were everywhere in France.  This was the wall that greeted me as I reached the half-way point of my walk. Sigh.

I’m starting to realise just how much my surroundings affect me.  I think I have Aesthetically Affected Syndrome.  I made that up.  But I think it’s a thing.  (If it is a thing and I’ve now discovered it before anyone else, this could be the answer to our “How do we become independently wealthy?” question.  Must follow this up.)

But then I noticed that some of my old favs were still looking pretty attractive.  I’m grateful when people make an effort with their gardens.  I for one am certainly uplifted by their handiwork.

Do they make up for the place I have just left behind?  Is it bad of me to say no?  

I arrived back at our driveway, where I noticed the letterbox garden was in dire need of some attention.  I walked up our driveway and noticed the piles of leaves that were scattered all over it, waiting to be cleared away.  I arrived at our house, noticing the soggy lawn complete with tyre tracks from Heir Number One’s ute and piles of dirt from the current drainage works for our garage Upper Room project  (also part of our “How to Become Independently Wealthy” quest).

And virtuous Renie said “I think you should jolly well sort out that big messy property log in your own eye before going after any neighbouring eye-logs.”

To which judgey, grumpy Renie replied “Go away virtuous Renie.  You’re annoying.”

9 responses to “Getting Over France – The First Week Back”

  1. You make me smile – from ear to ear! Great ponderings ❤️

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  2. Hi yes each one of us have happy places but we don’t always find them.
    Bill and I went on holiday to the Coromandel and I accidentally found mine. Victoria St Thames and it took trying for 3 houses and even put a Caravan at Dicksons motor camp in Victoria St before we got 112 and lived there 14 yrs before emigrating to Perth. When we were moving to Thames everyone thought we were crazy but it was where I had always wanted to be. So go for your dream even if it’s only for a few years like I did. I wish you success in finding your special place. Love and hugs Judy xx❤️❤️⭐️⭐️

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    1. Thanks Aunty Judy. Lovely to hear more of your story. And you two started in the UK! I remember your lovely home in Thames. Such a lovely spot.

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  3. Thanks Renie,
    Interesting observations.
    Good that you have been able to get out and about. Hope you are feeling much better now.
    Love
    Dad & Mum,
    XXXXX

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  4. Marlene Whitehead Avatar

    Hi Renie, remember you are human, don’t beat yourself up about the leaves left unswept or the tyre marks on the grass, you are alive and breathing. Take a breath after your walk, improve one area at a time even small improvements will lighten your spirits but most of all keep walking! You will become stronger in mind and body with every step! Believe me it’s the most important exercise I have ever done just putting one foot in front of the other. Good luck, thinking of you xx

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    1. Hi Aunty Marlene. So lovely to hear from you. Yes, it can all seem overwhelming sometimes, but good advice – thank you! xxx

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  5. Late to the party as always….I was starting to get scared about inviting you to our forest, but it all worked out in the end! You can bring your log and we’ll chop it up to use in the pizza oven….

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    1. Thanks Rachael, I will be jolly glad to put those old logs to good use! I will bring along my french, rose-coloured glasses so the smoke doesn’t get in my eyes. 🙂

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